Ok, as if my life weren't crazy and disfunctional enough...here we go with round 2. After a year of this roller coaster ride I finally decided to get off. I can take no more and am through waiting for something to change. With that being said once H gets a job I want to move on. I came up with a plan, made an appt with a D attorney and I'm moving ahead. Kids on board. Sounds great, right?? Except that now things have changed yet again.
I am friends with an ex-bf of my bff. He is a nice guy. They are no longer together. He is divorced and has been really good bout listening to me and offeing advice. Nothing else. Suddenly I start getting texts from him asking me out for drinks. To be honest. I don't care but bc of kids and the crazy on am currently on I think this would be a bad move until we seperate. So, I ignore the texts. H sees my phone one day and flips out. REally?? You have been sleeping out, leaving every night for a year and cheating and now suddenly how dare I talk to another man? Well, believe it or not he is actually jealous. All along he wanted nothing to do with me. Except now he is threateing this other guy that I have no realationship with. Telling him to stay away from his wife.Other guy calls me up and said that he wants to date me. I'm in shock but it is still weird and he dated my bff so I will just pass on him. Plus, the truth is I am still married and think it is weird that he is stepping in now in my current sitch. So, suddenly H has shown an interest in me again. complimenting me, staying home and telling me when he goes out where he has been. Today I got some playful texts from him. Now what?? Is this all still part of MLC? Should I stick with the plan to seperate? Any advise would be good.
me-42 H-41 S-12 S-8 M-15 yr f/o bout OW- 11-29-12 H moved out 10-31-13 Filed for divorce 12-27-13 D- 10-21-14
