If you can go on the trip, I say go, especially now that you know he does want you there. Go and make it an amazing & fun trip. My H would ask me to go places and do things, I would say no, because I felt it was too much money, or because it wasn't something I liked to do, or because I just thought he was simply asking and it was no big deal. I now know I was foolish to say no, he was trying to spend quality time with me, and I did not realize it. It hurt him when I would say no, he felt alone, I didn't realize it. He didn't tell me how my not going on trips and various events bothered him until it was too late.
All we have is today, so take advantage of it, don't wait for your vacation in a few months to come.
Hi Mimi, yes, I will be going. We have booked the plane tickets and I asked off work for those days this AM. I am somewhat excited about it, but also a little anxious/upset about leaving my S for a few more days since we are vacationing like 2 weeks later without S. However, I did not state this to H since I am trying to put H more into my thoughts/actions (if that makes sense). I want H to know he is just as important to me as S is.
Me: 27 H: 27 Together: 11, M: 3 S 2 BD: 06/24/13 Living together H: EA - unknown current status Read: DB, 5LL (slowly reading DR) Back and forth we go...
