Hiya SBR!!! I am sorry to hear that you have divorced. It is tough, I hope you are taking care of yourself.
I am also getting divorced, my XW filed in May and there is a 90 day waiting period here so... I also have some emotions but they are easing up a lot. I joined a christian 12 step program that is for anyone with a hurt, hang up or a habit. It's a great place to go and work out some of those pains. The group is called Celebrate Recovery and they are nation wide if your interested.
You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.
