Blindsided

[chl0901]

(especially since H never said anything about it - I'm gonna just need to let that go!).

Iexcept for H got really moody and quiet for a couple of hours in the afternoon so I just didn't talk to him (it would have annoyed him) and his mood had recovered mostly by the evening.

Just joined your sitch, but am sensing a pattern...are you?

Hi kate's_place, thanks for stopping by! By pattern, do you mean me needing words of affirmation from my H? Because I've found that is my LL and I do feel I need those! Also, from the second sentence, you mean that I annoy him? He does get annoyed with me easily, even when I am not "being annoying." And I've especially watched what I've said this past month with him in an effort to not be a nag or annoying but I haven't seen much of a change from H regarding my changes with that so far.

So finally read everything whew !

I see you are calming a bit but the whole OW thing is still making you crazy. What are some options for you to deal with this??

Do you mean ways to vent some of my stress and frustration about H and OW? If so, one of my outlets has been exercising which does help me some I think. I also think venting on here helps me a lot to deal, since there are a lot of other people who know how I feel and what I am going through. I also like to think of my S and remember that we are going to be okay no matter what happens. Those things usually calm me down for a bit, but then my mind starts to run wild again and just the overall feeling of betrayal and how H can lay next to me in bed at night and act like everything is going okay when I know he is confiding and spending time with OW. It just makes me really angry and upset.