Maybe I have a different idea of validating than you DMR. I thought we are supposed to make the validating statement ("I understand why you would feel that way") and that's all. Not elaborate or continue. I would appreciate some input from the vets here.

Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17