Hey KAW.....Thanks for the quick response and words of wisdom. I keep trying the "quote" thing....but I'm challenged that way, I guess, can't make it work.

You made me feel better already. I've really been questioning and re-visiting last night and this morning's conversation with H. UGH! Luckily, I had to work hard this morning, so had a chance to distract myself some.

Thanks for helping me put H's responses in perspective...of course he's not going to "see it my way.." I did try to emphasize that this separation may have a silver lining.

I have a coaching session with my C today at 3pm....I will get back to the BB with updates and new goals.

Today, I really feel as though I've lost some ground....those emotions are dangerous and get in the way of sticking to DBing and being solution oriented.

Thanks for the hugs, too, I needed that!

Mooka