Forward, I'm glad that you have moved on and have started a new life! You deserve it! You stood for so long and your XH acted like a horses rear-end. I have ZERO SYMPATHY for him! He gets exactly what he deserves and I wish more like him got it too! DBing is a great thing, but there comes a time when its just not healthy. I realize that everyone has to come to that on their own, but I do think we know when its not going to work, I guess it takes some people longer to accept it.