hey Mooka,

I have to agree with T2 in that though it is wise to remain calm and supportive of h's decision there is no reason to keep the truth from him...

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that leaves room for him to speculate and that was not a good thing.



just make sure you are not sending him the message that this is what YOU want.

there is a fine line between pressure/persuit and total detachment.

You are doing great!

LL