Hey Wiley....
Great to hear from you again..
You really took some time to catch up with my sitch and you gave me some very valuable feedback. first the positives, but then the mistakes/pity-type responses..... You were exactly right about being too honest. That's who I am naturally, so holding back some....being a little more distant, yet confident in my future is definately the way to proceed. THANKS for the skilled DBing insights. When we talk again, I will tell him I'm concerned about how he is doing and will be. I'll re-read your ideas. Just wanted to say that input gave me strength and ideas for future conversations. He will be in town all week, again...so we will be talking, I'm sure. Remember, he usually/almost always brings up the R talks.

I will demonstrate with my behavior, that I can take of my self, my needs, and enjoy life on my own. I will be ok...I now that.

Thanks again for your time and wise words.

Most Sincerely,

Mooka