Originally Posted By: tryingtodo180
The OW sounds like she is full on and this could eventually get on your H's nerves.


Agreed.

Originally Posted By: tryingtodo180
you must let him go first Be the wife that your H wants to come home to,

Angry, unhappy, clingy people are not really that attractive.

Find a way to make yourself strong and confident because THAT'S attractive.

Originally Posted By: kelela
l don't know why he wanted me to come tonight

I don't know either. Your H is not thinking clearly right now, and he may not have known why he asked you there either.

But, I get the feeling you perhaps thought he asked you there to spend time with you? Sorry K, your H just isn't that sensible right now.

To make things better and easier for you, remember to have ZERO expectations. Then you won't feel so rotten when your H behaves like a jackass. It will help you stay more even.

This is YOUR time K. YOU are the only one you have to impress right now.

Take care of yourself smile

Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.