It's good to have options! I guess W isn't the only one who noticed your changes? Does W know about your friend? That's certainly a dose of reality -- real world consequences. You sound good Breakdown, good for you!
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015