Lost, I pray for you every time I pray for myself and the rest of us DB'ers. Your sitch saddens me very much. Your right, you are losing out on what should be a joyful time with the arrival of a baby. What I can hope for you is that when your H sees his son for the first time it flips a switch or at least makes him start thinking. Seeing my first son born 5 years ago made me tear up and the love I felt seeing my W holding him brought me such joy. I thinks it's a good thing he is gonna be staying in the house, even though its just for the baby. That buys you time I feel. I'm having to DB with my W living across town and only see her during kids swaps. I pray that being a new father will affect him in a positive way and give him the feeling of what a family is. Much like I'm hoping the difficulties of my wife and I being apart as a family with kids will make her realize that a family is what she really wants. Stay strong for your baby and take care of yourself. Keep us posted.
JaxFL, I posted in your thread as well. I agree I am hoping that you will get the same benefits from your W being at a distance that I will get from my H being in the home with a new baby. Thank you so much for your kind words and thoughts, it really does help me on a day to day basis.
Me 35 H 34 DS- newborn 8/13 T 8.5 M 7 H's EA - 10/11 INILWY 5/13 DBing 6/13 Don't know WTF to do 1/14
