Jax, I don't think you need to be mean, and I realize that's not what you meant. Appeasing others isn't being "nice" it's usually avoiding conflict which is really only nice for the person avoiding the conflict. And it's only nice for awhile because eventually those conflicts raise their ugly heads in a more damaging way.
And, here you are.
What are you doing to work on that aspect of you? Have you read Co-Dependent No More?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
