Trust me chl0901! You def want to have H emotionally there for you while pregnant. I am going through H right now with dealing with this while pregnant. Plus as you say you know he has an OW. Could you really in good faith have a baby with him now? I wouldn't even be able to do it. Plus that baby deserves to be made in love not " to get it over with". That baby will be a little person and deserves much more than that. I hope you don't mind me saying all that.
Me 35 H 34 DS- newborn 8/13 T 8.5 M 7 H's EA - 10/11 INILWY 5/13 DBing 6/13 Don't know WTF to do 1/14