Hi Tvs, so glad you're taking time for a special treat for yourself and recharging your battery!
Time to reread snodderly's posts on reconnection? It looks different for you b/c your H never left the house and b/c he is fixated on this one woman and not all women, as my H seemed to be! Also, he's not pressing for D. I guess our sitches were quite different.
I admire you always taking the high road even as the pain sets in more deeply. You have the strength to do it, I'm a very weak emotional person and I've made it thus far! So anyone can do it, haha!
You have some happy times this month to look back on: H drawing closer and closer, happy family vacation, and spa time with a GF. More good things for you coming up with beach vacation with your sis and possible meeting some DB friends! I'm so jealous!
Thinking of you always, rH
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway