Hi Tvs, so glad you're taking time for a special treat for yourself and recharging your battery!

Time to reread snodderly's posts on reconnection? It looks different for you b/c your H never left the house and b/c he is fixated on this one woman and not all women, as my H seemed to be! Also, he's not pressing for D. I guess our sitches were quite different.

I admire you always taking the high road even as the pain sets in more deeply. You have the strength to do it, I'm a very weak emotional person and I've made it thus far! So anyone can do it, haha!

You have some happy times this month to look back on: H drawing closer and closer, happy family vacation, and spa time with a GF. More good things for you coming up with beach vacation with your sis and possible meeting some DB friends! I'm so jealous!

Thinking of you always,
rH


Me54/H47
'08 H is "done"
March '12 H moved out
Brink of D, December '12
2014 totally reconciled!
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"I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal."
Jim Conway