Mooka...I know you are sad..hurt..confused yourself...but keep talking to yourself that yoou will come out of all this ok..you have the choices...he sounds genuinley caring about you..and that is a good sign..let him know you will support his decision...I am never saying to be a doormat of any kind..but if he is showing care and concern, then he needs to know the same back..I can't advise on any r that has the yelling, hate kind, as I have not had that.
Keep involved in your faith...I was not very involved in my church until a few years ago when we got this wonderful pastor...whom I call an angel sent here to heal and uplift many people..especially my h and I...did I really ever believe in the power of God and prayer..the truth is not really..do I now? You bet..He has the plan for our lives..the good, bad and the ugly..but He will be beside us through it all..
Keep smiling..as hard as it gets..you will be ok..in time