Hi..Mooka..sounds like your h is very unsure what he wants right now...my h mentioned it for months about leaving..at first I think I said we could not on the m if youleave..then the wise LL and KAw, just to mention a few..said that if I ppush him..it will surely send him...so I did not..but when he finally made the move..I supported it..told him if that is what he needs then go...but I worked on me for all the time he's been gone..and it is the best thing that could have happened to both of us...I now see that nothing I could have saud or done was going to change how he feels...but waiting out the storm and knowing that I wanted this m..has paid off. I do see that peicing is another challenge...the same fears are there..just different. Give him the space...
