Adinvo - Thanks for commenting and taking the time to read my venting. I have been keeping up with your posts. You are right, she is not offering a real marriage.

TH - //We just never know when they will wake up//. No we don't and I know that I can't emotionally deal with this any longer. I really need to put my nose down and get this done. The more I think about this, the clearer this becomes.

Lanzo - I read a big chunk of you story. It is very sad. You worked at this for so long and tried so hard. I am very sorry that it still headed to D. When I read stories like yours, it makes me even more determinrd to take control of my own life and move forward. Leaving the control to my W just seems like setting myself up for years of pain. Do you wish you had moved to D earlier?


M43, W37
D5, D11, D13
DB 12/11/2012