Hoping for WAS to come home

[JaxFL14]

Hotwheels,
Def not taken the wrong way. That's the problem, I really can't answer for her. I just don't know for sure, I said quality time but that's just a guess. Ever since our first baby was born 5.5 years ago and got on antidepressants she just hasn't been the girl I met. She showed glimpses but it really affected her. I'd say she loves getting gifts as well. So maybe that's it, quality time and gifts. I'm just lost because I know I am a very good husband. My problem was being too nice and doing TOO much for her and she came to expect it instead of being thankful. A book called love must be tough told me that when you become an appeaser (which I feel I did because I always wanted to make sure she was happy) that person loses respect for you and that kills the love spark. Makes scence and sounds just like what my W was telling me. So for me to be different I most have to be mean. Lol. That's almost what I feel like I have to be. But I know I did things wrong and ill write more after I finish this workout. Ill get back to you but def didn't take your response and too blunt. I should know it.