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WOW, T!

I am impressed with the way you handled this!

MC, therapist, reading books and talking about her moodswings – that really sounds like fantastic news to me!

I do hope that VETS will come by!

FYI Retrouvaille is in London at the end of September!

F


Thanks F!

I'm trying not to have any expectations regarding this for my own sake and to hear what Sandi has to say on it. smile

I remember reading about Retrouvaille being in September a while ago. Could be an option.

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T1000, sounds like a good breakthrough and you handled yourself really well.


Thanks HWA!

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I wrote a post and guess I forgot to submit. You're doing great. Build on these successes!


Thanks labug! Gotta keep improving!

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Nice work, T. Now don't go all "meltyman" as I've read it described before and muck everything up. You need to build upon your hard work and continue with your detachment and your matter of fact approach. This is what seems to be working, so keep it going. If your W falls off the wagon so to speak, and she very likely will, just carry on as you have been.

Best of luck to you!


Thanks 2TP!

You are correct, the meltyman is so easy to fall back into. I can feel him looking at me right now.

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Good job! I agree, be prepared that this won't be linear, just keep being detached and honest like that.


Thanks adinva

I'm prepared as much as I can be. I like the detachment that I have achieved, it helps me do the honest part and not be effected by things out of my control.


M36 W31
S4 S2
T5 M4
BD Jan12 S July12
Recon Sep12-Nov12
ILBINILWY Jan13
OM x 2 in 2013
W wants R July 13
I start D. Jan 14.
Meet GF Nov 13
Have I changed enough? Jul 14

The World is still My Oyster!