Quote: And being the guy he is, his pride isn't going allow a book or tape to "fix" him, that the way we are sometimes.
Ain't that the truth!!! LOL!!!
My H, who is in fact very brainy, who can pick up skills and info really quickly when he sets his mind to it, would completely pooh pooh the idea that any 'self help' book could ever HELP HIM!!!!
And Mooka, about the thing where you and H have a nice intimate evening/night, then H is distant the next morning, ditto with my situation, when H spent five days here recently. He was 'afraid' I would read something into it! Didn't want to give me the wrong idea!
It is so WIERD having your spouse being wary about feeling something for you, being afraid that tongues might wag if people see you getting on well together, being together!
I think in my H's case, it's because he went around announcing to the world, post bomb, in a very arrogant and swaggering way, that it was all over, things were going to change, oh yes they were...
Now, he would have to go back on all that???
Anyhow, Mooka, the fact that your H keeps postponing his departure also speaks volumes!
Hang on in there!
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
