I’m new to the surviving section and yours is the first thread I’ve read and there are some surprising similarities to my sitch. (I make some comments over there).
Anyway all I can do for now is offer my sympathies and say like others have hang tough (which is what I am trying to do).
Lanzo
Me:50 W: 49 T:20yrs M: 14 yrs D:11 2005 PA 2006: EA (2003 : 2007) 2007: April ILYBNILWY Aug PA, Sept Separate 2008: Feb Piecing 2009 Limbo 2011: Separated (same house) 2013: Divorcing