I found you...things sound better.maintain the friendship level...from what my h has said, and I have only discussed it all 1 time, but I am assuming th s who has had an a is going to keep on the train, until something, someone get's them off...be it God, concience..time..guilt...so give him the space and let him know that you are willing to wait..I do assume that is what you want? I know they say never "assume"...take it one day at a time
