I see you posted on my thread, so you saw the WAS info i'd gathered.
I need to name that first 3 month cycle they all go thru to "The provoke stage", cause that's all they want to do, create distance. Trust me I know how hard it is to not get caught up, but your playing right into her hands. You are pushing her further away, and soon, if your not careful, you'll push her all the way out, with no coming back.
Since your out in the sticks, can you start a garden? I know its not exactly manly, but it can keep you busy. Have any paint in the ole' garage, touch up the house? Pick some weeds, clear up around the house. Maybe pick a bedroom or living room and rearrange the furniture?
When she sends a text, next time before you respond, the first thing you need to say to yourself is........"Is what I say gonna make it worse...........". You already know nothing you say is gonna make it better.
Slow down.......cause your not gonna get the answers you want right now anyways.