I have struggled so much with this same thing Rock.............is filing the right thing to do. Man, its brutal, and I go back and forth 20x a minute. I'm not in your same situation thou, not in the same house with my wife, don't have small children to protect. Don't have to watch first hand the destruction. I don't envy what your going thru that's for sure.
I think if you went and filed, and pulled it off the table, or delay'd it if there was some turn of events with your wife (theres still options while it plays out). You just need to do what you think is right for you. I know how bad it hurts to think your wife just doesn't care. Especially when you've been there for her, and dealt with so much pain. We just will never know when they'll wake up, if at all. It all comes down to how much more you can put/deal with. And only you know that.
