Wiley ...You are good...you are very, very good.

Thanks so much for jumping in so quickly with positive reinforcements and new ideas for the future baby steps. I really appreciate the male perspective, too. You are wise beyond your years! I like your ideas about agreeing with H about the "love and passion".....cuz in a sense you hit the target...I don't to confuse the situation, unless I can feel good about our potential future together. You are dead on with that concept. And he needs to get a clue that he's not meeting my needs either.

I followed some of your sitch....and know you've gone the long haul. You deserve much happiness in your future...and however it goes, I think you will find it ten-fold.

T2 -Thanks for your words of encouragement, too. The basics of DBing are sometimes blurred in the moment. You saw through my ramblings and guided me swiftly forward.

Mooka