That's manipulative of her. Marriage is also a commitment to love honor and cherish forsaking all others. You aren't a hypocrite, you just may not have understood that she might be asking you to go for life with no love, affection, or basic respect. That's an unreasonable demand to place on a marriage.
You don't have to justify yourself to her, if you believe in your heart that you are doing the right thing.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
