God, I wish you could EDIT after posting. Must slow, down and take a breath.... ;-) What I meant was, she initiated the texts and emails, is all. The disaster.... I'll own up to that. :-(
After all that, I couldn't sleep last night, so when she texted me today and asked if I would be able to go somewhere while she came over to visit the cat and get some stuff, I said I needed to rest today and it wouldn't be a good time. That went ok with no fighting at least.
