WELL.....thanks to all of your quick advice.... I did "nothing" in regards to our issue around the insurance, timing of discussion, etc. Guess what??? He was calm, collect....asked to discuss our insurance and finance issues with all our facts. We resolved our plan, and it was over! I did not apologize, just listened and responded calmly and with confidence.
Then, yesterday morning, he decied to go into work late....yes I said LATE....(He 's married to his job at times!!...an escape in my opinion!) Anyway...we exercised, he was kind, warm...talkative. He brouhgt up our "intimacy" moments and we had a great, open, honest talk about our needs and thoughts about the other. He basically is still waiting for the real "love & passion" in our lives before we go the distance to full on ML. He has read Michele's point of view with regards to making a choice to love again, rather than waiting for the feelings....at the time, he didn't buy it. He won't read her stuff or listen to tapes, tho he's repectful that I go there for assistance. Oh well.....I guess my goals are my own.....
*To behave in new ways...to keep him off balance, so he is intruigued with me.
*To remain confident and act "as if"
*To keep busy with work and my own social activities
