Update: Went swimming with W this evening at a local creek, something I mentioned to her during last week's heat wave.
She was relaxed when I picked her up, invited me into her apartment while she finishd dinner. Started to rain when we arrived, and she laid on a boulder in the middle of the creek while I found a deep hole to jump into.
It was a lot of fun, the sort of thing we had never done before (see previous entry). I didn't realized how much I needed to check out and get away for a while until I did it. Again, she was completely relaxed and herself. I kept it light.
About halfway home she told me that she wished I wasn't so nice to her... I told her that I'd work on it.
M:46 W:46 M:25;T:29 S:25; D:17 BD:12/22/12 D process begun:1/21/13 W moves out:3/1/2013
Anyone who isn't embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn't learning enough- Alain De Botton