While I agree snooping isn't the right thing to do. Sometimes in a sitch in can be to your benefit, by hearing or reading what your other half feels about what you did/didn't do. It can be a step in the right direction.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
