You are doing great!!! Continue to do exactly what you said!!
Quote: Low expectations....be a friend....lovingly distant.
What really helped me was reading the book, "Love Must Be Tough" by James Dobson. It took me a long time to get to the point where I was ready to set some boundaries but the book really helped.
In hind site I would have had a "talk" with H about if he came back it would have to be permanent or don't come home. However; H said if he came home it would be for good and then changed his story a few days ago and says, "I thought I would give it a try." Aliens with selective memory!!
Pray alot, listen to what the holy spirit is telling you and come here to vent!!!!!
You are really doing a great job DB!!!! I so agree that everyone has and is still giving me great advice!!
