Jax, you shouldn't have to have your wife do the 5LL quiz. You should know her by now. My W needs quality time and physical touch. Things I am trying to do, based on time with her.
Don't get discouraged about about sitch's on the forum. Your's, mine and the others are all different, but similar. It doesn't mean yours has to end up like others.
Mental struggles will continue to come, no denying that, just how you deal with them will and should change.
Think about this quote someone wrote up, I live by it.
"It is a marathon, not a sprint."


ME:51 W:46
M:25
S:22, S:20
Divorced 16/9/15
BD 10/12
W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12.
Dark since 6/13
I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.