Hotwheels, Thanks for offering your support. I agree with everything you say. So why is it so hard to stay on the track you know you should. Or this track that I've chosen to follow being the DB technique. I get discourage sometimes when I'm reading other threads and I'm hearing the same feelings I'm feeling and I look at the date and they are 12-15 months into this and their W and H are with others ... I wonder if ill be able to last that long. As I've posted before, my W has no plans for a divorce as for as actually filing though she feels that it's just a matter of time and money. That scares me but I also take hope in that it gives us time. And she has said a few times that there is NO ONE ELSE, won't be anyone else and she doesn't want anyone now. So I try to believe that and having known her for 10 years I truly believe she feels she wants to be alone right now. But I know that will only last so long. No one wants to be alone forever. I like your advice about going for the small touches. I've thought about that recently and will try to get those in when and where it's appropriate. Mental struggles on what right and wrong on a day to day basis. Praying for patients. Thanks for the support.
M:33 W:32 Married:8 Together:10 S:5,4 and 8 months BD: 4/1/13 W move out day: 5/4/13 ILYBNINWY,WAS. No talk of wanting to save relationship
