Months huh? Well, the problem with that is she is only 9 weeks from being eligible to file for a D if this is what she intends on doing. I dont really know for certain if she plans to as she has never said the word D yet. Yet, all her motions so far has been moving in that direction. There has been some mention on these boards of not letting it go so long without contact in certain cases. But again, it's hard to make the right call. As you said, it is difficult for you not to contact your H. If I'm not mistaken your fairly confident he wont be filing anytime soon correct? I mean Trying, I dont plan on making contact anytime soon. but for now I guess I just have to be hushhhhhhh.....


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