I agree with 180. Go to the birthday party, let him see you getting along wonderfully with his mom and other family (if they are there too), wish him happy birthday and move along, but truly try to enjoy yourself.
Originally Posted By: kelela
I just dont understand why in order for me to believe in the heavenly father I have to attend church services.
You don't have to attend church to believe. But church can be a helpful place to go to relieve stress, or meet others who have a positive outlook on life that could be of support.
I agree mimi Some of my most supportive friends have been friends I've met through Church. In fact I've just spent a day with one of my Church friends Much to my H's dismay, lol He always takes my son swimming on a Sunday, then comes back and has a coffee here before he goes home. My friend invited me for some lunch and asked my H if he'd mind dropping my son off at my friend's instead. I don't think he liked his routine disrupted, tough
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Some of my most supportive friends have been friends I've met through Church. In fact I've just spent a day with one of my Church friends 
