I should have known better than to waste my time talking with xh yesterday. He sent a text this morning saying he can't handle anymore conversations right now which is perfectly fine. Then he sent a email with an attached offer which was written as all or nothing, no room for tweaking or negotiating. He's trying to strong arm me again saying he will pay me what he owes as soon as I sign his stipulation regarding support. He also wants me to have the house refi'd in 45 days or I agree to sell. That's not reasonable. The boys will have started school by then. Now he's back to blocking my move. Yesterday he was agreeable. The terms are all about him. I was finally feeling normally again and now I'm crying and feeling hopeless. He's just going to keep controlling me. Withholding money when he knows I need it is so abusive. I don't feel emotionally safe with him and just need to get away from here.
