My sense is to wait a bit

I concur. I mean, look at how much things flipped in the course of just a few days. Wait a few more and take the temperature again.

Too bad your H did that to your daughter. Even grown children need a boundary, I feel.

Take care smile

Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.