Hi NLT!

We must have cross posted.

When I was card shopping for H all I wanted was a simple "Happy Birthday" but I kept finding mushy flowery stuff. Just not feeling that these days.

Rome sounds great! I went to Italy a hundred years ago on a school trip and really like Florence, so lets include that too smile

Thinking has mostly worked for me as well, along with the breathing. And if I give my crazy left hand a job to do then it seems to behave.

Cheers!! or rather,

Ciao!!

Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.