Hi uRworthy!! I'm glad I make you smile That makes me smile too!!
AJ, I will check into PTSD related things. Thanks for the heads up.
I hope this cake is good. Its banana cake with a layer of pineapple preserves another of strawberry preserves, chocolate ganache and walnuts and cherries on top. And it looked much prettier in the magazine lol. And the cake was from scratch. I was actually making it during the text war. (Recipe didn't call for irony, that was just my own idea ) I might have used cat food (or cat-something), but this is a shared cake for D19 and H, and the rest of the family too. Perhaps next time I'll do something "special" just for H.
TVS, lol. He does have a way about him sometimes.
Right now he's mad at me, I do believe. This isn't mind reading, this is living with someone for 21 years and knowing how they behave when they're mad.
But, now, he's coming home for a dinner out for D19. Told me that's what he thought the plan was. I almost wish he wasn't... have to wait and see how his behavior will be.
I don't think I've shared that there is something wrong with his back of late? He has been to the doctor once and was told it is a spinal thoracic lumbar sprain. It is causing him quite a bit of pain. And me quite a bit of worry. He goes back to the doctor Tue. (MIL called yesterday asking for H. I told her where he was. "J! He has a sore back, what'd you let him go to the casino for?" Fortunately it seems it was a rhetorical question.)
Thank you all so much for stopping by
Have a great week!!
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
That makes me smile too!!
) I might have used cat food (or cat-something), but this is a shared cake for D19 and H, and the rest of the family too. Perhaps next time I'll do something "special" just for H. 
I almost wish he wasn't... have to wait and see how his behavior will be.
He goes back to the doctor Tue. (MIL called yesterday asking for H. I told her where he was. "J! He has a sore back, what'd you let him go to the casino for?" Fortunately it seems it was a rhetorical question.)