I agree with 180. Go to the birthday party, let him see you getting along wonderfully with his mom and other family (if they are there too), wish him happy birthday and move along, but truly try to enjoy yourself.

Originally Posted By: kelela
I just dont understand why in order for me to believe in the heavenly father I have to attend church services.

You don't have to attend church to believe. But church can be a helpful place to go to relieve stress, or meet others who have a positive outlook on life that could be of support.

me: 30 H:30
tgthr:7 m:4
no kids
5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012
long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012
official BD: July 2013
nothing filed
1/1/14 I dropped the rope