Blindsided

[chl0901]

Also, I am about to read a little more of DB while my H is out and before my S wakes up.

Weird thing happened last night: We were out eating with H's extended family, and they were asking about when we were going to have child #2 (gave a generic "maybe next year" answer). On the way home, my sister called to tell me about her dr. appt (she is pregnant). I was telling H about it when I got off the phone, and he said, "I think we should go ahead and have another one, to just get it over with." I told him I wanted to wait until after our vacation (we have had a vacation planned with another couple in Oct.). He kind of got an attitude, and said okay.

1) I don't want to "just get it over with."
2) I do not want to get pregnant when my H is not attracted to me (hello, weight gain!)
3) I do not want to get pregnant while H is still talking to OW (they still do not know that I know)!!!