Hi lost, thanks for stopping by! I am definitely making these changes for myself, too! Both the physical (working out) and my 180s (I don't like being a nag!). I read Sandi's rules several times a week and try to follow them as best I can. I am trying to maintain a PMA, which I think I've succeeded with for the most part, but am finding it really hard to detach to where H's actions don't affect me. frown

Me: 27 H: 27
Together: 11, M: 3
S 2
BD: 06/24/13
Living together
H: EA - unknown current status
Read: DB, 5LL (slowly reading DR)
Back and forth we go...