Lost, I pray for you every time I pray for myself and the rest of us DB'ers. Your sitch saddens me very much. Your right, you are losing out on what should be a joyful time with the arrival of a baby. What I can hope for you is that when your H sees his son for the first time it flips a switch or at least makes him start thinking. Seeing my first son born 5 years ago made me tear up and the love I felt seeing my W holding him brought me such joy. I thinks it's a good thing he is gonna be staying in the house, even though its just for the baby. That buys you time I feel. I'm having to DB with my W living across town and only see her during kids swaps. I pray that being a new father will affect him in a positive way and give him the feeling of what a family is. Much like I'm hoping the difficulties of my wife and I being apart as a family with kids will make her realize that a family is what she really wants. Stay strong for your baby and take care of yourself. Keep us posted.
M:33 W:32 Married:8 Together:10 S:5,4 and 8 months BD: 4/1/13 W move out day: 5/4/13 ILYBNINWY,WAS. No talk of wanting to save relationship
