How do you think I found the letter?? LOL!! And the snooping precipitated BD in my case, so you think I would learn my lesson.
H does not lock phone anymore and sometimes leaves it. I haven't looked in ages.
But I always find snooping has more to do with my state of mind at the time...What is H thinking? Where was he? etc etc. But those answers do not ever give me a real answer, because I can only guess the whys. Even asking H, I would still be guessing whys, he has lied so often it is hard to trust.
When I am really detached, I don't snoop, because I don't need to. When I get sucked back in or having emotionally unstable bouts, I do. Those are the times to stay away from H's stuff, get out, GAL etc!
