I guess that I am not making myself clear. I am working on DB. I bought Dr yesterday. I am re-reading DB and DR and will be strong and apply all of the techniques. I believe my inlaws are aware and are putting pressure on her to work things out. i don't know if this is good or bad but I have no control over my wife and what she wants. I am doing what it take to make "Us" look like her best option. I will work hard every day but only time will tell.
Same with me ... My intention to DB is right in my signature (and posts). I just have to put the really hard work on hold a bit until after the birth of my child. Priorities. He's unhappy with me and in a fog. I'm unhappy that we are in this situation and he doesn't want to work on things. But we still we chose the path we feel is best for our sons development and well being.
Best of luck in your situation, keep us posted.
Me 35 H 34 DS- newborn 8/13 T 8.5 M 7 H's EA - 10/11 INILWY 5/13 DBing 6/13 Don't know WTF to do 1/14