One month down, zero casualties

[RosaLinda]

The gifts and talks about you two in the future do seem positive Raine. All those OW, holy cow. The spring and summer before my H and EA1 broke up, he befriended multiple divorced or widowed Russian female language partners. Seven or eight of them. He wrote the exact same things to each one, pottraying himself as a lonely unloved man married to a cheat and liar, who he nobly stayed with for the children (actually in their 20s and 30s at this time). They all claimed to fall for him, and a torrid email exchange followed. I was seriously upset and snooping, but every relationship fell apart within 2-3 months. I finally decided the more, the merrier. If he was telling so many he loved them, he probably did not care about any. Maybe it's the same with your H?