She had said a while back that we could sell the new house if I didn't want her in it. Having a hard time not digging up that email and replying that this would be the only fair thing to do. But this would be quite a hardship for her, and would pretty much enrage her. I think deep down my motivation would be just keeping OM from what was my DIY dream project and the new start for the W and I. This is something we've tried and failed at multiple times, trying to find our dream home. I realize I'm all over the place, but I'm still realing from yesterday morning and can't stop the thoughts racing through my mind.