Thursday night h came over to pick up something at the house. He was a totally different person than he has been the last 3 weeks. He was very nice. I was in the pool, just relaxing from the day and he got in too. We talked a lot. He admitted to still seeing OW.
He had just been to the c that day and he asked c why she thought I was still there. He didn't tell me what they talked about after that. I go on Tuesday so that ought to be interesting. He seems to be in the "thinking" stage again.
He took the girls to the lake this weekend so it has been nice and quiet around here. D21 had kind of a break down before she left for the weekend and I was there for her so hopefully that brings her a little closer. We went through a period where we were like oil and water. She told me several times "thanks for being there for me". So, I was glad that I wasn't at the lake and I was there when she needed her mom.
It will be interesting to see how h is when he returns. I have given him tons of space. I have not heard from him all today and most of yesterday. I told him I think that is what he needs. Especially when he is in the "mean" mood. I just don't need that.
Went to a friend's house that was having a small party then we went to the horse races. It was fun and nice to get out. I told myself I was on a small vacation too so I wasn't going to do a lot of work around the house.
Hope everyone is having a good weekend. They seem to go so fast.
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