Journaling like crazy, here, but I just remembered something. On more than one occasion, when I threatened to leave in the heat of the moment, she threatened to kill herself. But I'm expected to consent to D with no drama - which for her means I must simply agree and sign the papers. The only difference being her circumstances are better right now - weight loss, OM, the new house, the car, and a full-time job - so no need for her to be dramatic. <sigh>
